This morning, I woke up to raindrop splattering against my window panels in perfect harmony and instinctively I knew I had to snuggle in bed longer. It was absolute bliss.
Recently, I got about reading "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho for the second time. This time round, I think I managed a much better understanding and different perspective to the story which I probably overlooked the first time I read it. It is a simple story about how a shepherd went about pursuing his personal legend or we would call it The Dream. Such an often thought about topic, so often discussed but rarely pursued. "The Alchemist" really put forward a story that is close to everyone's heart. It is a simple story but the plot was brillant and will definitely get you thinking..
Good books deserve a second read and I want to share a very interesting extract from the book. It was an introduction to the book and the moment I read it, it struck a chord in my heart so I want to share it with all of you.
What is a personal calling? It is God's blessing, it is the path that God chose for you here on Earth. Whenever we do somthing that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don't all have the courage to confront our own dream.
Why?
There are four obstacles. First: we are told from childhood onward that everything we want to do is impossible. We grow up with this idea, and as the years accumulate, so too do the layers of prejudice, fear and guilt. There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But it's still there.
If we have the courage to disinter dream, we are then faced by the second obstacle: love. We know what we want to do, but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream. We do not realize that love is just a further impetus, not something that will prevent us from going forward. We do not realize that those who genuinely wish us well want us to be happy and are prepared to accompany us on that journey.
Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus, we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path. We who fight for our dream suffer far more when it doest't work out, because we cannot fall back on the old excuse:" Oh, well, I didn't really want it anyway." We do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of the personal calling is no easier than any other path, except that our whole heart is in this journey. Then, we warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the Universe is conspiring in our favor, even though we may not understand how.
I ask myself: are defeats necessary?
Well, necessary or not, they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream, we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of lie, though is to fall seven times and get up eight times.
So, why is it important to live our personal calling if we are only going to suffer more than other people?
Because, once we have overcome the defeats and we always do, we are filed by a greater sense of euphoria and confidence. In the silence of our hearts, we know that we are proving ourselves worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the food fight. We start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing, eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives. Having disinterred our dream, having used the power of love to nurture it and spent many years living with the scars, we suddenly notice that what we always wanted is there, waiting for us, perhaps the very next day. Then comes the fourth obstacle: the fear of realizing the dream for which we fought all our lives.
Oscar Wilde said: Each man kills the thing her loves." The mere possibility of getting what we want fills the soul if the ordinary person with guilt. We look around at all those who have failed to get what they want and feel that we do not deserve to get what we want either. We forget all about the obstacles we overcame, all the suffering we endured, all the things we have to give up in order to get thing far. I have known a lot of people who, when their personal calling was within their grasp, went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal - when it was only a step away.
Paulo Coelho
Rio de Janeiro
November 2002
Translated by Margaret Jull Costa
Phew! It's lengthy but worth a read which was why I took the effort to type it all in. I'm not sure if you actually got to reading it all but this introduction was the gist of the whole story. Read it if you have yet to!
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